Respecting Native Hawaiian Culture: Do’s and Don’ts for Visitors

May 19

Hawaii Isn’t Just a Vacation Spot

It’s a living, breathing culture with a deep history. Hawaii is home for many, not just a place to escape your 9 to 5. So when you land here, it matters how you show up. Being respectful isn’t about rules or guilt trips, it’s about showing aloha for the people and the place that’s welcoming you in.

Start with a Little Language

You don’t need to be fluent, but using a few Hawaiian words goes a long way. “Aloha” isn’t just a greeting, it’s a way of being. “Mahalo” means thank you, and saying it with intention shows you’re paying attention. You’ll hear locals using these words daily, so feel free to join in, respectfully.

Some Places Are Sacred, Not Scenic

Not every waterfall, beach, or jungle trail is up for grabs. Many places in Hawaii are sacred, and locals take that seriously. If you see a sign saying kapu (forbidden), don’t cross it. Even if it looks like the perfect photo spot, that doesn’t mean you should be there. Always stay on trails, obey signs, and don’t hop fences.

Support Local, Not Just What’s Convenient

When you buy from Hawaiian-owned businesses, you’re helping families thrive. Whether it’s a farmer’s market, a local surf shop, or a food truck with grandma’s recipes, your dollars make a real impact. This also applies to tours. Look for experiences led by Native Hawaiians who can share stories, not just facts.

Respect the Land and Ocean

Locals treat the ʻāina (land) like family, not a resource. That means packing out your trash, skipping the rock stacking, and leaving nature how you found it. Wear reef-safe sunscreen and never touch coral or turtles while snorkeling. The ocean is powerful and sacred here, and it should be treated with care.

Be a Guest, Not a Taker

This place isn’t a backdrop for content. It’s someone’s home. When locals speak, listen. When you’re invited into a space, show gratitude. Don’t assume you’re owed anything just because you bought a flight. Being curious, kind, and conscious makes a difference.